Question
Assalam-o-alaikum
Mujhe ek musala Pochna hai.
Mei pichle do saal se ek larki ko pasand karta hon. Meri waalda bhi uske liye razi thi. Lekin uske parents razi nahi thy. Woh larki mujhe apna Husband maan chuki hai. Uske parents k na maanne ki waja se mere parents ne meri mangni January '2009 mei kardi. Woh log Tabligi hai. Hamare relatives bhi hai. Ab woh larki dobara try kar rahi hai k kisi tarha uske parents razi hojaen. Woh kahi or bhi shadi nahi kar rahi hai. Mei bhi usy buhut pasand karta hon. Meri walda bhi koshi kar rahi hai. Meri walda ne uski walda se baat bhi ki hai. Woh razi hai. Magar woh yeh keh rahi hai k is rishte ka kya hoga jo aap ne kiya hai?
Pochna yeh hai k kya yeh sahi hai k jis larki ko mei pasand karta hon usy chor kar kisi or se shadi karlon. Jab k woh kahi or karna nahi chahti??? Agar mei yeh rishta khatam karna chahon tu kya kar sakta hon?? Mei kya karon??? Meri help karen??
Meherbani kar k jaldi jawab den or meri islah karen. Aap k jawab ka intizar hai.
Duaon ka talib.
Answer
Wa alaikumussalam wa rahmatullah,
Islam guides us in all fields in all ages. You had to ask before about the permissibility of your relation with that girl when you met her first, but you didn't ask. So first admit it that your problem is due to your own negligence, never blame Islam and Ulama if you dont succeed to get any remedy from them. Also Do Istigfar on such behavior, Almighty Allah always accepts it. Now listen!
1. Don’t divorce the innocent girl you married.
2. Four marriages are allowed in Islam, If you think marrying the other girl would be beneficial for you and her you can marry her without divorcing the first one.
3. If that girl or her family insist you to divorce your wife, Dont divource her. It’s a Sin. Your gentle wife has at least the same or more rights than a strange girl has.
your kind guider
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